Q&A: The semen always runs out of me after sex – What to do?

Hi Maj,

When I’ve had sex with my boyfriend, the semen always runs out of me afterwards. It has never been a problem before, but now we have stopped using condom as birthcontrol becauce I startede on the pill.

And then the problem started!

I had no idea that this would be a problem. I have had sex with other partners before without condom, and for some reason I never experienced this before!

It’s actually pretty annoying that I keep dripping the day after – specially when I at work 🙁

Do you have an advice as to what I can do?

Best T

 the semen always runs out of me after sex

The semen runs out of me after sex – What to do?

 

Hi T!

Oh yes!

This is a common problem for women once you stop using a condom.

But no worries – there is actually a few things you can do to avoid the semen to run out of you – or dripping out of you during the night or next day.

I have talked with many women – young and old – and this seems to be kind of a problem.

It also seems like, that it depends on how much sperm the man “deliver”.

I know that it maybe sounds a little crazy, but some men actually “deliver” muh more than other.

What is normal…

When we are talking about sperm there is big diffrence in 1/2 teaspoon or 1 teaspoon (the normal amount) – especially when it has to drip out of you over the next 12 hours – then the diffrence in 1/2 to 1 teaspoon really becomes huge!

Also remember, that this is the normal bar.

That means that some men deliver a lot less and some men deliver a lot more, and I guess thats why you are experiencing such huge diffrences.

Maybe the guy you are having sex with now is in the high production end – so high, that you end up experiencing this a a bit of a problem.

We can hardly do anything for him to produce a less amount. 😀

But we can do something for you, so you do not have this problem. And frenkly I can really understand how annoying this must be for you.

I know several women that have had to bring extra panties, because they got wet more than once during the day – they were also affraid about the smell of the semen.

If it smelled so much that others would notice – but I dont think so. 🙂

That´s more a trigger-thought or catastrophe-thought. But I completely understand the panic and discomfort about the problem.

So…

What to do if the semen runs out of you after sex:

1) One of the things you can do is to stand up and squeeze together your pelvic floor muscles a couple of times and with the further help of gravity squeeze out the semen.

Maybe you even have to do this just after sex (yes, I know that is not very romantic!).

But of course you can also wait a bit. Maybe you have to do it twice – it really depends on how much he “deliver”

2) If you want to be completely certain then you can use a tampon for about 10 min. Walking around (help of gravity again) – or sleep with it. But NOT more than 8 hours as a maximum because of TSS (Toksisk shock syndrom).

Be sure to use a mini size because you really do not need bigger size and you do not waht to irritate the mucous membranes more than necessary.

That should do it.

If you are reading this, and you have a good tip then please drop a comment and lets help each others 😀

Maj Wismann advices about semen runs out after sexLove,
Maj Wismann – Clinical Sexologist and Relationship Therapist with own clinic since 2006 – Read more about Maj here <—

 

 

 

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1 Comment

  1. Henrik V Blunck

    It is quite true that in porn movies, the so-called creampie compilations do indicate a huge difference between amounts of semen delivered by males. Sometimes one almost believes it must be a trick… 🙂

    Good advice, and I am sure every woman appreciates this if she is in the company of a guy who delivers more than average.

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