Praise

*** Disclaimer: These are people´s own experiences, please keep in mind that they may vary from person to person

”When I first contacted Maj I had been thinking a lot about what I thought was the problem in my relationship. My husband and I were on two different tracks and couldn’t figure out a way to be on the same one. This resulted in misunderstandings, moaning and negativity. Maj listened for a long time and took notes and then she started asking all the right questions. Her first question was: “Why is your huabnd not here?” And I had to admit that a lot stemmed from my behavior. Maj was being very constructive with this information and more than once I tried to put the responsibility on my husband but she wouldn’t let me get away with that. So you men out there, don’t worry if you’re thinking Maj is going to be on the woman’s side. She’s constructive, empathetic, theoretically skilled, she says what’s needed, she’s very specific in solving tasks, she’s honest, trustworthy, straight-forward and she’s very engaged in what’s going on and will be happy to recommend books etc. Because of all this I felt hope – from day one! I had almost given up and saw this as the last chance of us working out. This is the best money I’ve ever spent. We’ve gotten a life together which I didn’t think possible.”~Maria

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“Sometimes in your life you need strong, specific and directly applicable advice which can be transferred to your life. You can go to an authorized psychologist and all the theories can be correct. This is all very nice. But this isn’t always what you need as a client. If you’re really screwed, it’s often not enough for you to know all these different methods. This is the time where you need something that works. Tools. It was a bit of a coincidence that I found someone who could give me this specific counseling, telling me exactly what to do, how to do it and why I do it. This way I become more aware. This form of “directness” I found with Maj and I want to give her my VERY best recommendation after only one session! She has the warmth of a good friend even though she’s not and is someone who knows exactly what she’s talking about. I have the utmost respect for her professionalism. With her there’s no beating around the bush, no mincing words, no fancy academic terms which no one understands anyway. Just words telling you how to go about your situation.”~Mette

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“My life, my marriage and my way of dealing with other people can be divided into two: “before” and “after” Maj Wismann. This woman has a very special gift. Being in therapy with her you open up and put your life and your problems in her competent hands and you quickly realize that she really does perform miracles. Maj is so down to earth and has so much empathy that you can’t help but feel safe in her hands. She’s one of the smartest people I know and I have the utmost respect for her, her work and her methods. If any of my friends are feeling unhappy, Maj is the first one I’ll recommend to them.”~Gitte

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“You have taught me more about life than any other person ever has before. I used every single piece of advice you’ve given me. You’ve turned me into a person who thinks about life completely differently than I used to. You’ve been worth every single penny and every single minute. Thank you, thank you, thank you. I could spend hours in your company. Everything you’ve taught me in the few hours I spent with you, I will find useful for the rest of my life. YOU have taught me to live for myself and not for how other people think I should live. THANK YOU! You’re worth gold.”~Anders

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“I honestly believe that we could’ve split up if I hadn’t gone to see Maj Wismann, even though it was only for one session. After my first son was born we (mainly myself) found it difficult to be sexually intimate. I now see that great things come from listening to myself and being honest with myself. Also towards my partner about what I want and what I DON’T want. Even the little everyday things are better now. Maj is an amazing human being, both personally and professionally. She listens and doesn’t mince words. She’s unbelievably talented at what she does and if you ask me if I’d recommend her to other people I’ll say ”YES, YES, YES!!” THANK YOU, Maj.”~Sofie, 28 years-old

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”When we first came to see Maj our desire for sex had disappeared. This was because our love life wasn’t working. We are now very aware that there’s no point in sending out love on one frequency if the receiver of this love is open to receive the love on a completely different frequency. And because of this we’re now also aware that we have to make room for each other’s differences and respect that we have different needs and what may seem insignificant to one of us can be something very important to the other. If it wasn’t for Maj we would’ve split up and out daughter would’ve been a child of divorce. Maj is incredibly present when she talks to you and we felt that she was personally very engaged in our relationship. Kind of like a good friend whom we felt we could confide in and we also went through a huge amount of tissues to wipe our tears. If you need a person who really listens, really tries to understand what you’re going through and doesn’t beat around the bush (while knowing what she’s talking about) Maj Wismann is the one to contact. We’re so happy about the help we got finding love again.”~Tina and Kim

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“It was very important that there was a good chemistry between us and that I felt safe during a therapy session. And with Maj I did! In 2009 I took up erotic dancing which helped me loosen up and get to know my body better. I wanted to be brave enough to dance in a sexy way and get out my naughty side. However, this erotic dance didn’t show any results. I had participated in workshops, read porn magazines, bought – and tried – different vibrators, read erotic poems and short stories. I had tried sitting in a circle with other people and talked and I’ve tried stress relief. No results, no orgasms. Baesd on her amazing knowledge on the subject, Maj gave me ideas and suggestions on what exercises I should do. I could usually choose which exercises I wanted to try out before our next session. This was so nice because this way I was a part of creating the path to my orgasm. I was not used to touching myself in a sexual manner. Maj asked questions, listened and wasn’t trying to lecture me. History, excuses and self-pity didn’t matter too much to Maj, we worked with the current problems and this was really what it was about. To be 32 years old and not have any sexual relationship to my body was a huge issue. I always had to fake orgasms in my relationships. Sex didn’t mean anything special to me, it was more like a chore. I either had to accept my lack of interest in sex and perhaps even leave my boyfriend to try and find someone else who didn’t see sex as anything special either or I could face the music. I decided to take on the challenge and learn how to have an orgasm. I’ve learned so much about myself and my relationship to my body. I learned that what I thought was impossible wasn’t at all. It wasn’t an easy thing to do but I’m so happy I went to see Maj Wismann. She helped me when I thought I was abnormal. Today I’m still with my boyfriend and we’re now the proud parents of a little girl. Maj has loads of positivity and optimism. I remember her like it was only yesterday. Maj is to-the-point, understanding and full of ideas and tools. She has the ability to find the core of the issue, however in order for her to do this and for you to reach your goal it requires your honesty and your willingness. Maj has such a broad knowledge and I’m sure she will find a solution to your problem. I’ve never regretted my choice of sex therapist.”~Thea, 32

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“Went through a turbulent time after a broken relationship. My biggest challenge was to put the millions of things that happened to me in my past and my thoughts about this into words. I was afraid to face the ghosts of my past, ghosts which have been roaming ever since I was a little boy. However, I haven’t been able to do it alone and not without Maj. I had a feeling of inner peace that grew with every session. I felt more calm in my mind as I talked things through. Another great joy, another great outcome, that I really notice is that I’m now much better at just relaxing and enjoying my two sons. I can now say no to work to be around them, my family and my friends. I’ve never been able to do that before. The people around me are saying that they notice that I’ve changed for the better. I’m now better at keeping appointments and I no longer live in my own little world. I’m more grounded now.”~Finn

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“While studying to become a sex therapist and couples counselor I asked our chief psychologist of the course if she was able to recommend a sex therapist for me to turn to professionally and she suggested – without hesitation – Maj Wismann. After speaking to Maj on the phone I knew she was the therapist for me. I got so much from Maj’s approach. She’s very straight-forward and to-the-point but at the same time incredibly open and caring. However, what comes across most is her integrity. When my boyfriend and I started our sessions with Maj, I was very close to me actually leaving my boyfriend. Even though I was taking a therapist course I couldn’t be a counselor in my own relationship. And it was very clear to me that we needed help. And we got this help from Maj. We’re still together and our relationship is great – thanks to her! My biggest challenge was to keep my mouth shut and let my boyfriend be heard. Simultaneously we had to learn how to communicate with each other in a positive and acknowledging way. If I hadn’t worked out these issues our relationship wouldn’t have lasted. Maj is good at asking questions and she’s good at listening to her clients. She’s a logical thinker. This makes Maj great at ”reading” her clients and their challenges. In addition to my own counseling, I sometimes use Maj as my mentor when helping my own clients and I always trust her judgment and I love her ability to see through things.”~Susana

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“I saw Maj Wismann give a lecture and talked to her briefly afterwards to see if she had the tools I needed. Maj listened to me and addressed my doubts about whether to choose a divorce, and she made me analyze my relationship and made me try to work constructively with what was left of it. She also guided me in how to deal with it if it did end up in a divorce so that after making the decision I wouldn’t be completely lost. I couldn’t feel my feelings either and it was easy for me to get angry and show it but not actually feel it inside me. Maj pointed out what could be done and pointed out my strong suits, which is something that has helped me a lot; especially in regards to my self-esteem. I was unhappy and I didn’t know why so I started reading all these self-development books. My reward is a bigger sense of self-worth and joy. I’ve learned how to fill myself up – I’m better at looking after myself, do things that make me happy instead of constantly trying to please everyone else. I’m no longer sitting alone watching a film every night and I’ve lost 20 kilograms since I started. I’ve never in my life had so many friends as now and I’ve learned that it’s okay to be me and that I’m good enough as I am. I’ve learned that if other people don’t like me, they’re the ones missing out; not me. Maj is wonderful. And from the first time I met her I was hoping that she would become a part of my life and mean something important. Maj exudes a joy for life. She’s so alive and so engaged in her work. Maj is real, she’s not a phony.”~B, 37

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”I realized that our sex and relationship problems weren’t going to solve themselves and we needed professional help. I read Maj’s website and it was very much like my own language – an unpretentious way of looking at things. The most important thing I’ve learnt is that change doesn’t just happen, it starts with me. Maj Wismann makes a difference in looking beneath the surface. She’s straight to the point and it feels safe to be with her. My biggest challenge was to see that I myself was part of the problem. If it hadn’t been for Maj Wismann I’d probably  have gone my own way and gotten divorced or cheated on my husband. I don’t blame myself any more and slowly but surely the lust for sex and being intimate returned. I no longer feel guilty when I turn down my husband and our communication is much more constructive. In general we have a lot more structure and energy in our lives. Maj takes things seriously and she met me right where I was and we started working with the things I was saying. She’d ask questions and I thought I could hide behind funny little comments and be a bit superficial but she saw straight into my heart and she did it in a way that did not put me off. I felt very safe AND THEN THE TRUTH CAME OUT, THE TRUTH AND ALL THE UGLY BITS. Everything I had to say in order to move and heal what was hurting me. She made me feel “normal” again. I let go of my guilt and it was amazing. All of a sudden I could do things and live again.”~Louise

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“I had some challenges in my life which I couldn’t handle on my own. It was in the middle of my exams that I decided to go see Maj because it all got to be too much for me and my body was reacting to this stress. I needed a dialogue with a professional since my thoughts could really get out of control. A friend of mine recommended Maj to me; she’d been to one of Maj’s lectures and had found it very helpful. She also really liked Maj’s style. After a long and very bad relationship I had some very ugly thoughts about myself but Maj’s therapy made a huge difference. Maj presented many positive thoughts and unconventional ideas to tackle certain situations and problems. Because she’s so straight-forward it makes it very easy for you to tell her about the things that bother you. Every time I had had a session with Maj it almost felt like a surge of good feelings filling up my body. Maj doesn’t mince her words. “All right, what’s bothering you today, what would you like to talk about?” And then there’s nothing left to do really than just answering her question. Honestly and straight from the heart. Maj gave me her professional view on how the body works when you keep your feelings locked inside you and this is how I discovered that the reactions I was having were quite normal. The results of this therapy with Maj have been huge. I had an idea of what therapy would be like and how people would think but to me therapy is like writing your thesis with someone else because you have someone you can lean on and take advice from. It’s a conversation that can help you look at things differently and it makes you stop and think twice. I think that Maj simplifies things a lot where you might think that what you’re going through is a massive problem. But after talking to Maj it’s like everything is more settled and clear. I’ve learned not to be afraid of how I feel and think. Everyone needs someone to lean on and sometimes it’s easier if this person doesn’t know you personally.

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Today I’m happier. I kind of feel more whole in a way AND THAT IS FUCKING AWESOME! Let me also recommend Maj’s digital courses ”Single Life” + ”I love you, but I’m SO sick of fighting.” These courses have helped me SO much! It’s important to me to point out that Maj is very down to earth, she’s a good listener and she asks her questions in a way that you turn your thoughts around and might end up looking at a certain situation differently. She’s honest and she calls a spade a spade and most of all she’s not afraid to speak her mind. You don’t feel that she’s sitting above you looking down on you, telling you what to do. She makes you wonder, ask questions and reflect on different things. Last but not least she has an incredibly drive and a great outlook which naturally rubs off on you being in her company.”~Pernille

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“Thank you so much for how you make visiting your clinic a fantastic experience. I’m also a member now of Club Love and I’ve happily listened to your courses many times and each time I’ve felt a certain calmness settle inside me and I’ve been able to shut out everything else but your voice. I felt the same thing happen as I walked into your clinic. One of the things that I really like is the way you treat people. You say “what can we do now for things to fall into place?” Another thing is that you don’t mince words!! You call a spade a spade and that is something everyone can relate to!! FANTASTIC – I want more people like you – YES PLEASE!! The money that I paid for the sessions with you is, without a doubt, the best money I’ve spent in a long time. SERENITY, FAITH, WILL, HAPPINESS AND HOPE is what I take with me. Again, a million thanks for helping me as my dream of an amazing future was crumbling around me.”~Lene

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“My husband and I came to Maj Wismann because we were experiencing a problem that had a big impact on our marriage. We contacted Maj and this turned our lives around. Maj wasn’t afraid to speak her mind, my husband’s thoughts were addressed and I got a chance to express my true feelings. We felt that we were treated professionally and taken seriously. We’re so very grateful for the session with Maj, it helped us move on. Maj looked through American articles and our problem now had a name – sexomnia. Now we have a diagnosis to relate to and not something unknown. It turns out that the observations my husband made during the night were correct, and that there are different ways to treat it, which we’ll try. If we hadn’t gone to see Maj Wismann, we’d have ended up getting a divorce. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP.”~The couple from Jylland

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“I decided to work with you and no one else because I had heard so many good things about you! It was my dear boyfriend who first went to see you! To begin with you had given him some answers via e-mail, which made both of us feel more secure. So when it was my turn, the choice of therapist was an easy one. I had already seen what wonders you had worked with my boyfriend! You really opened my eyes, taught me how to love myself, respect myself and use the signals that my body was sending me in a constructive way instead of ignoring them and ignoring myself really. You taught me that “life rewards action” and that it’s your own responsibility that your life is pleasant! You have to do whatever works! Sometimes when I feel like I’m in a tricky situation I think “what would Maj say to me now?” You’re still on my mind, often really – IN A GOOD WAY. I wasn’t able to feel my needs, my emotions! I felt empty and needed emotional development. I blamed my partner for EVERYTHING, but you taught me that it takes two to tango and that I carried part of the responsibility as well! My challenge is still to believe in myself, to believe that I’m something important! I am, however, more aware that a negative thought might not be actual reality. I let myself feel the negative and I’m better at accepting its presence! You taught me how to do a reality check on those negative thoughts of mine. Besides from this you’ve taught me how to deal with what’s there! Not try and analyse it or overdo it. To stick to the truth and deal with the truth only! This means that I’m now only dealing with what’s there, what’s said, what’s done, what you see, what you hear! It was very relevant for me to work with these challenges I had. If I hadn’t faced them, I would’ve left my boyfriend and I would’ve definitely regretted that! And really, since I was a teenager I’ve felt a need to learn new techniques in my life. I felt like I had acquired some really bad habits. I would just accept it when people didn’t treat me right. My result of this counseling with Maj is an easier life! Just like that! You’ve made facing life a lot easier! I’m now better at looking after myself. I’m better at being a good wife. I’m better at spoiling myself but also better at accepting the bad times and the more melancholic periods in my life. My boyfriend and I are now MUCH better at talking about things instead of fighting!”~Malene

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“I was having big self-esteem issues. And every day I use the tools that Maj has taught me. This makes me stay more positive and not hit my head against the wall every single day. Maj Wismann is special and she gives you so much more than you first realize. I now see my sons and my ex in a completely different light and this has helped me a lot. My problems are now considerably smaller, and just getting through the day is a lot easier for me. Maj did a “conflict-roleplay” with me that has made me stronger and more capable of handling conflicts. I believe that she helped me to no longer feel so insecure about who I am and what I stand for and for that I want to thank her. I recommend everyone who needs help to go see Maj Wismann.”~Anette

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”I’d been to two of Maj’s lectures and I thought that she seemed very competent and her expertise was really something I could benefit from. Maj helped me get to know myself. She made me realize that I’m worth something as a human being. Very slowly I built up my self-confidence and I got to look at my life in a completely different way. My whole life I’ve been a victim of lies and manipulation and I’ve never been brave enough to stand up and demand what’s my right: a worthy life. I can, without a doubt, say that my life has never been as good as it is now. And I’m forever grateful. My biggest challenge was to open up and put into words how I was feeling. If I hadn’t faced my problems and met Maj I would’ve crumbled completely. I had reached my limit for how much I could handle. I was constantly feeling tired and I was mentally broken. My biggest reward was that I found myself. I got to know Camilla as she is and I had a lot more energy to be there for my children. I got better at stepping up and saying no. I also learned that it was my right to have a life and this life depends on what I feel is right for me. I’m much happier now, more free and I’m no longer constantly tired. I refuse to be afraid of life and love anymore. Yes, I’ve got loads of scars and deep scratches, but it doesn’t do any good for me to just sit in a corner being frightened. I want to thank you so much Maj.”~C

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”I had been ill for a long time and that ended up costing me a long term relationship and I was very depressed and had no energy at all and very low self-esteem. I had lost faith in myself and didn’t think that I was attractive to the opposite sex. In addition to this I was struggling to accept certain parts of my sexuality. How I saw myself was unrealistic and predominantly negative. For several years my job required many hours and tight deadlines and I was pushed to a point where my life wasn’t working. Even though I originally went to see Maj because of my problems with my sexuality and because I had a tendency to experience erectile problems and feeling insecure towards the opposite sex, Maj chose to start the treatment elsewhere. Through a cognitive method, thought schemes and different homework, Maj and I started the big work of changing how I viewed myself. My perception of myself changed, it got better and more realistic, and simultaneously we worked on making my life more structured. Things like sleep, healthier eating habits and exercise as well as time to myself were now priorities. We made specific plans for me to get more time and more energy. Through my work with Maj I’ve reached clearcut results: better self-esteem and a more realistic view of myself. I now know how to handle situations where the negative thoughts about myself start to surface. Also, my acceptance of who I am has grown. I feel more attractive to the opposite sex and I now have more to offer in a relationship. Because of this, I now see a much greater – and more genuine – interest from women. With improved self-esteem, I’ve been able to start new projects. I’m more social and I’m working as a volunteer where I help other people with their problems. If I hadn’t gone to see Maj there’s a big chance that all the negative thoughts and unrealistic thoughts about myself would’ve developed into a heavy depression. It’s easy to see that Maj is very passionate about what she does, and it’s been very easy for me to talk to her very openly about very personal issues. At the same time I’ve really enjoyed how Maj is able to see the things in a bigger context. She’s professional and very capable in her knowledge about sexuality, relationships, communication and cognitive techniques. Throughout the time I saw Maj  I was able to call her or write to her if I felt a need and she was always very flexible with appointments and working them around my work hours. In my eyes there’s no doubt about what a wonderful person Maj is and she really does enjoy helping other people – I’d love to recommend her to others.”~Casper  

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“Maj Wismann masters the noble pedagogical art only few experts know: she can convey her message in a way people can understand. I use Maj again and again as the expert source on relationships, sexuality and emotions because with her as the messenger you can be absolutely sure that you receive an explanation that you can understand. She simply refuses to hide her words of wisdom behind academic language and therapist phrases. And considering how much detailed “geek knowledge” Maj Wismann actually has in the area of sexuality and relationships, it’s really a wonder that she continues to be able to “boil it down” so that it makes sense for everyone else as well.” ~Vigga Wagtberg – editor of Oestrogen.dk

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”You CAN enhance your relationship and your love life and with very easy and simple tools. You are guaranteed these tools in Majs Online Courses! Maj is the essence of honesty and authenticity and she shows that love doesn’t have to be hard! If you want your relationship to get better – really good even – and you’re willing to invest in this, then Maj Wismann’s Online Courses are the place to start! It doesn’t have to be difficult in any way at all; and that is exactly what Maj’s comprehensive online digital courses do for you and your partner. It’s simple and easy and makes you feel closer. A big difference for very little money!”~Christina Aros – Arosbyaros.com

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”Maj Wismann’s courses about love and communication are a must-have in all relationships. She’s quick-witted, funny and you can recognise your own problems in what she talks about and she also presents good and practical ways to solve these problems. For instance, we, as women, sometimes still have a need to be reminded that a man can’t read our minds and it doesn’t do any good to react in anger and bitterness – not if we haven’t even expressed our feelings and wishes beforehand. All in all, Maj’s courses on relationships are easy to understand, they’re interesting and very useful for both sexes.” ~Charlotte Haase, Editor in Chief on the magazine “Psykologi”

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“I’m fortunate enough to have listened to several of Maj’s courses. A common denominator is that the tone is very down to earth, relevant issues are being dealt with and she gives actual and practical suggestions on how to solve these problems. Maj has rare insight into what’s going on in the “regular relationship” and her way of approaching these issues is genuinely empathetic. She speaks her mind and you never question her competence. To deliver counseling this way is still a new thing in Denmark. However, I don’t doubt that we’ll only be seeing more of it. Every single one of Maj’s products are worth the money. This is all for a fraction of what you’d pay for traditional counseling. You really can’t lose – hooray for accessibility at the exact time we might need it – and at a price which allows everyone to play.” ~Jette Gad, Behavioral Economist

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“I’ve had the pleasure of benefitting from Maj’s knowledge, both professionally and personally. As an editor of a female site and a dating site, you can’t avoid questions and information about love, sex and relationships. On those topics, I’ve received very useful answers from Maj that are always popular with our readers. Personally, I’ve found myself, more than once, being frustrated about either my own or my partner’s reactions. What I like most about Maj is that I never feel wrong, I’ve never had a chance to turn something against myself. She has an ability to turn everything around in order for it to land just where it belongs. She does this without things being too serious, too fake or too unrealistic. I often listen to her products in my car or on the train, when it’s quiet and I have the time. And even though I’ve listened to her products many times before, I find myself becoming a little bit smarter every time. To be in a relationship or in the search of one requires you to constantly work with yourself. This is where I find the online products work really well because you can listen when you feel like it and when you have the time for it.”~ Trine Thorendal, editor and owner of Courgarcentral.dk

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“Dear Maj. I’ve listened to several of your courses and you are amazing! It’s like Christmas! When you mentioned your cources for the first time and the prices I thought that you were crazy! So much quality for such a great price! You have my deepest recommendations. You’re always super quick and I love how honest and straight to the point you are. Even through online products, you really makes things happen.” ~Coach Charlotte Lotus Sommer

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“Whether you’re already in a healthy relationship or working on it, I strongly recommend this online course to you. Couples therapist Maj Wismann has recorded a series of online courses that you can download directly to your computer. These will guide you towards a healthy relationship. She removes the fear of what other people are thinking and puts the focus on the couple. How do you feel about each other, how do you solve your problems? Maj Wismann is smart and with humor she talks about the traps that most couples fall into. She also presents alternative ways to solve the problems. The way these amazing products are presented makes it possible for you to listen to them everywhere.” ~“Psykologi” magazine editor in chief, Lizl Rand about Majs Online Cources

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“I chose to purchase Maj’s course about woman’s sexualily the hopes of getting to know my sex drive better – or more accurately, my lack of it. I had always wondered why my interest in “bed gymnastics” wasn’t as high as my husband’s but after my daughter was born my desire for sex completely went away. I was sick of feeling guilty and I decided to do something about it. I was looking for answers and solutions. Maj’s course has given me both – and much more! After the course I felt relieved, and I could let go of my guilty conscience and the feeling of being abnormal. It was really an eye-opener and I saw that there are numerous things I can do to awaken my desire for sex again! Maj’s presence, her honesty and approach make me feel at ease with this taboo subject. This is what sex had been to me for a long time anyway. You almost feel that you’re in the same room as Maj. A small investment that has provided massive return! Thank you so much!” ~Jill 

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“Do you want to work with your sexuality? Start here! You don’t even have to look through a book to get to Women’s sexpert Maj Wismann’s massive expertise. Among other things it’s about masturbating and orgasms. Who wouldn’t want to know more about this?” ~Women’s magazine Woman

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“Cut out all the excuses about not being able to afford it or not having enough time to do it, and start this course that goes through all the classic traps and tells you how to improve on your communication, solve problems and agree to disagree and much, much more. Maj shares from her own experiences and extensive knowledge when she shares simple tools and techniques to save your relationship. As she says so herself: “When you’ve got communication under control, it makes even more room for all that’s good.” ~Tidens Kvinder: Denmark’s only erotic magazine for women about Majs Online Cources

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