Articles about sex, love and relationships by clinical sexologist Maj Wismann
Dear Maj, I think I’m going crazy. About 1 year ago, I found out that for 5 years, my husband has been messaging an acquaintance of ours who’s also my colleague. He’s “just” been writing things like “milf” (Maj’s words: to those of you who are unsure about what this means, the meaning of this […]
Hi Maj, Right, so now it’s my turn to ask you a question: Why do men with a girlfriend (or a wife) look at other women? I was out shopping with my husband the other day and I caught him discreetly checking out another woman. I asked him why he was looking at her like […]
Hello Maj, I’m a 19 year-old girl. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years. We truly love each other and I definitely see a future with him – we often talk about the future and having a family and I truly believe in this. BUT about 6 months ago, I fell into depression and […]
White Lies – and lots of them! Dear Maj, There is a significant age gap between my boyfriend and I. I’m a 27 year old woman and my boyfriend is 21. He’s pretty mature for his age, and in many ways he’s a lot more mature than what I was at 21, BUT there are […]
When you and your spouse vowed “in sickness and in health” you really meant it. Your mate’s attitude and the happiness or discord in your marriage can actually have an effect on your mental and physical health. This makes it all the more important to care for one another’s needs and ensure you’re benefitting your […]
What if sex hurts? A Danish study shows that in the last year, 3% of all women have experienced pain during sex. Both Danish and international studies show that several women experience discomfort and pain during sex. I often get approached by young women who want my advice on what to do about the pain […]
Don’t want sex? You think you don’t want sex but in reality it might be about you not wanting to have sex with your partner – because of everything but sex! There’s a lot of talk about a missing sex drive and about how you get it back. However, before you jump on board one […]
“Job satisfaction in your family business” – What on earth does that even mean, Maj? I’m glad you ask! I’ll tell you what it means! I’ve had the pleasure of knowing Jon Kjær Nielsen since the Fall of 2014. We’ve had a lot of great talks about joy, job satisfaction, satisfaction in your everyday life; […]
How do I stop lying to my boyfriend? Dear Maj, I’ve been following you for a couple of years now on your Facebook-page, and I’ve enjoyed reading your agony column, but now I’m finding myself in a place of actually needing some advice myself. The thing is, I have a huge problem. I’m constantly lying […]
How can I trust my boyfriend? Dearest Maj! I’ve been struggling with this problem for a few months now and I haven’t been able to find a solution for it myself – then last night I had a dream about you and I take this as a sign that (hopefully) you will be able to […]
