Articles about sex, love and relationships by clinical sexologist Maj Wismann
A lot people write me asking what couples therapy is really all about. Some want to get into therapy while others just want to hear how it is done. Shit, “something’s” missing! Perhaps you are feeling that “something” is just not as it should be. Driving home from work, you may feel it in your […]
Dear Maj, I’m no longer in love with my girlfriend whom I have known for half a year. I think she is insanely gorgeus and sexy but it’s like the infatuation is gone. Usually at this point in a relationship I take off and find a new one but I can’t seem to get myself […]
So many people ask themselves: “Is something wrong with me?” It’s something I hear a lot when people settle into my soft couch at the clinic. The tricky thing about this question is, that you don’t ask it and then examine whether there’s any truth to it. Oh no… The answer lies within the question as […]
5 Steps to Create an Unforgettable Summer without Relationship Crisis Oh, how we dream of the summer! If you are a little like me, I bet you also imagine children smiling and playing with each other at the beach, a fab husband who looks handsome and asks you, while his fingers caressing your neck while […]
Dear Maj, I think I’m going crazy. About 1 year ago, I found out that for 5 years, my husband has been messaging an acquaintance of ours who’s also my colleague. He’s “just” been writing things like “milf” (Maj’s words: to those of you who are unsure about what this means, the meaning of this […]
Hi Maj, Right, so now it’s my turn to ask you a question: Why do men with a girlfriend (or a wife) look at other women? I was out shopping with my husband the other day and I caught him discreetly checking out another woman. I asked him why he was looking at her like […]
Hello Maj, I’m a 19 year-old girl. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years. We truly love each other and I definitely see a future with him – we often talk about the future and having a family and I truly believe in this. BUT about 6 months ago, I fell into depression and […]
White Lies – and lots of them! Dear Maj, There is a significant age gap between my boyfriend and I. I’m a 27 year old woman and my boyfriend is 21. He’s pretty mature for his age, and in many ways he’s a lot more mature than what I was at 21, BUT there are […]
When you and your spouse vowed “in sickness and in health” you really meant it. Your mate’s attitude and the happiness or discord in your marriage can actually have an effect on your mental and physical health. This makes it all the more important to care for one another’s needs and ensure you’re benefitting your […]
What if sex hurts? A Danish study shows that in the last year, 3% of all women have experienced pain during sex. Both Danish and international studies show that several women experience discomfort and pain during sex. I often get approached by young women who want my advice on what to do about the pain […]
