Articles about sex, love and relationships by clinical sexologist Maj Wismann
Dear Maj, I am a 45 year old woman who’s never felt desire, had desire, masturbated or enjoyed sex. My husband and I have sex because he wants to, but he also wants me to want it and enjoy it. But I don´t. And I just don’t think I ever will, it’s not my thing […]
Dear Maj, My husband and I have known each other for 17 years and we have always had a lovely relationship until about a year ago. My husband got fired from his job because of cutbacks. He really loved that job! And ever since, everything’s gone downhill… He’s always grumpy and moody and I’ve lost […]
Dear Maj, Please help me! I don’t know what to do and really hope that maybe you can guide me? For years I have been following your emails, but now it is my time to reach out and ask for help and I am sure that you have a good take on this situation. Here […]
Hi Maj, My wife was sexually assaulted as af child 🙁 She came to me the other day and told me how she’d been sexually assaulted by her grandfather when she was 10 years old. She stayed with him for a whole week and feared every day when he sat in his chair and asked […]
I nature, there’s no doubt about why we are having sex or why sex happens. Animals are having sex around the clock with the one purpose of procreating. It’s about the basic need of planting your seeds and securing the survival of your species. But what’s the deal with us human beings? Actually, there are […]
A lot people write me asking what couples therapy is really all about. Some want to get into therapy while others just want to hear how it is done. Shit, “something’s” missing! Perhaps you are feeling that “something” is just not as it should be. Driving home from work, you may feel it in your […]
Dear Maj, I’m no longer in love with my girlfriend whom I have known for half a year. I think she is insanely gorgeus and sexy but it’s like the infatuation is gone. Usually at this point in a relationship I take off and find a new one but I can’t seem to get myself […]
So many people ask themselves: “Is something wrong with me?” It’s something I hear a lot when people settle into my soft couch at the clinic. The tricky thing about this question is, that you don’t ask it and then examine whether there’s any truth to it. Oh no… The answer lies within the question as […]
5 Steps to Create an Unforgettable Summer without Relationship Crisis Oh, how we dream of the summer! If you are a little like me, I bet you also imagine children smiling and playing with each other at the beach, a fab husband who looks handsome and asks you, while his fingers caressing your neck while […]
Dear Maj, I think I’m going crazy. About 1 year ago, I found out that for 5 years, my husband has been messaging an acquaintance of ours who’s also my colleague. He’s “just” been writing things like “milf” (Maj’s words: to those of you who are unsure about what this means, the meaning of this […]
