Articles about sex, love and relationships by clinical sexologist Maj Wismann
Dear Maj, I think I’m going crazy. About 1 year ago, I found out that for 5 years, my husband has been messaging an acquaintance of ours who’s also my colleague. He’s “just” been writing things like “milf” (Maj’s words: to those of you who are unsure about what this means, the meaning of this […]
Overcoming infidelity – it is eating me up! – What can I do to move on? Dear Maj, My feelings are tearing me apart. Explanation: In November I did the unforgivable (yes, I know) and checked my boyfriend’s Facebook account. I don’t know what came over me and I was very surprised to see […]
“I didn’t want to give my husband a hug; Cause I was already worried he’d want more…” I want you to meet Louise. Today Louise has a lot of sex drive and she doesn’t even think about her sex drive anymore. This wasn’t the case 1½ years ago though! Back then, her sex drive […]
Dear Maj, My boyfriend and I have known each other for approximately two years now. The first year we had the most amazing sex which we both very much enjoyed. After that first year, I was the one to initiate sex most often and gradually it became clear that my appetite for sex was greater […]
Stress is a sneaky thing because the really hardcore stress will not just happen from one day to the other. If you already are not feeling any stress then you can CLEARLY feel the stress building. As a human you are able to handle sudden stress from a certain event or three busy days at […]
“Maj, I’m sooooo tired, I cannot take it anymore and now he wants to go away for 4 days of fun with his friends in Berlin! When is it my turn to have fun?! I feel like I’m the only one who gives and gives and gives and goddamit I’ve had enough! But I can’t […]
The winter blues… I LOVE New Year’s. New plans, new ideas, dreams and vision. And I especially love the feeling of moving towards days filled with more sunlight. Because let me tell you, I am R-E-A-L-L-Y not at my best in the dark and cold winter days. One could say that I’m like a reptile […]
Hello Maj, I’m a 19 year-old girl. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years. We truly love each other and I definitely see a future with him – we often talk about the future and having a family and I truly believe in this. BUT about 6 months ago, I fell into depression and […]
A time-out will save your relationship. Are you guys fighting till the roof comes off? Take a break. Not from each other. From the fight. Learn how to turn the draining fights into constructive conversations. “Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?” a very wise man once asked. This […]
A funny, graphic overview of 51 surprising and cheeky facts about sex, sex drive, a lack of sex drive, women’s sex drive, men’s sex drive, and loads of vey funny bonus info. Read on for a good laugh! Introduction: As a sexologist, couple’s therapist, speaker and news paper column writers, I’m often asked what gives […]
